Identical twins Anna and Lucy DeCinque have spent their entire lives mirroring each other in every possible way, choosing the same foods, wearing matching outfits, and keeping their routines aligned so they never drift apart.
The twins have grown so comfortable with this shared lifestyle that they insist they never feel jealous when one receives affection, even when it happens while they are sharing the same bed. It’s a topic that people ask them about again and again.
Anna and Lucy, who live in Australia, have answered this question several times before, often responding in perfect unison as if they had practiced it.
The twins have talked openly about the effort they put into staying identical, explaining how they measure out portions of food and drink and even undergo fillers and cosmetic treatments at the same time to keep their mirrored look intact.
One surprising twist in their story is that their partner of 14 years, Ben, is also a twin. But unlike his brother, Ben is the only one in a polygamous relationship.
“There’s no jealousy in the relationship,” the twins said, before adding “If Ben will kiss Anna, he’ll kiss Lucy.” They also noted that the order in which Ben shows affection does not matter to them, because what they value most is staying connected to each other.
The identical pair, who appeared on the TLC series Extreme Sisters, have joked about being “double trouble,” saying they often team up when disagreements happen and Ben ends up outnumbered.
While the twins are happy with their lifestyle, being part of a twin-centered throuple does come with complications that many couples never think about.
For Anna and Lucy, the next big challenge is figuring out how they can become pregnant at the same time. They want to experience motherhood together just like they have experienced everything else in life.
Another major roadblock to their long-term plans is the law. Australia has banned polygamy since 1961, which means the trio cannot legally marry as a group.
“We would like to marry him one day but the law in Australia says we can’t, so what do we do?” the pair said on Extreme Sisters.
